Cramps?

I wrote a long update a couple of days ago but blogger got all wierd and gave me an error message. I was so upset and didn't feel like writing it all over again. Now I forget what I even wanted to say.

I feel like I've been having some very minor cramps. Not sure if it's just in my head though.

As far as the date of the retrieval and missing work, I've been given an entire week off from camp, so I bet that's probably a good thing.

May is a busy month for me. Lots of birthdays and mother's day and all that. I was at Hallmark buying cards and I wanted so badly to send a card to the Intended Mother. So I went home and wrote this email to the clinic-

Hello again!

I was wondering if there is any way I could send a brief "hello" note with good luck/encouragement/happy vibes to the Intended Mother. I know this process is annonymous, but I really would love a way to convey to her that I am so excited and hopeful, and I have her in my thoughts every single day. If that's not allowed I completely understand. I figured it doesn't hurt to ask!

Thanks,
Katy


I got this reply-

Hi Katy!

You can definitely send a message to your recipients. I’m sure they would love to hear positive thoughts from you. What you can do is email me your message to her, and I can then send it along to her via email. That way you will remain anonymous. Thanks for your thoughtfulness. It will mean a lot to them!

I am so happy about that! Now I need to figure out exactly what I want to say. I would love love LOVE a reply from them, but I have to keep reminding myself that they must not want to know me because although the process is anoymous, if both parties agree they can meet.

But emails are harmless right? Couldn't the mother and I become email buddies? I feel like we're leading these parallel lives but we're complete strangers. It's so odd to me.